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Austin Hargrave on 3/23/22; Hair: Serena Radaelli/Cloutier ; Make Up:James McMahon Cloutier; Set Design: Dane Johnson/Atellier; Styling Heidi Meeks/The Wall Group

Donna Millsis a woman who knows what she wants and goes for it.

Now 81, Mills says up until that point, she had been entirely focused on her acting career, but all that changed when she adopted daughter Chloe, who is now 27.

“I was very concentrated on my career, but at a certain point, I realized there was something missing — it was a child,” she says. “So I went after it. I adopted her when she was four days old.”

“By that time, I was 54 and people said, ‘You’re going to be so old [to] have a little toddler running around.’ I never felt that,” she recalls. “I never felt older than the other mothers who were probably in their 20s.”

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Donna Mills in her backyard with Daughter Chloe- 10/12/2020

It was perfect timing for Mills, who encourages others to consider the same.

“If you want to give to your career, I say having a child later in life is better than having a child early,” she says.

Though years have passed, Mills says she and her daughter are still very close.

“We see each other at least once a week and we talk every day or text,” she explains of their bond.

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Austin Hargrave on 3/23/22; Hair: Serena Radaelli/Cloutier ; Make Up:James McMahon Cloutier; Set Design: Dane Johnson/Atellier; Styling Heidi Meeks/The Wall Group

Since her breakthrough performance in Clint Eastwood’s 1971 directorial debutPlay Misty for Me, the actress has continued to work steadily, and will soon hit the big screen inJordan Peele’s upcoming thrillerNOPE, in theaters July 22.

However, Mills also took an 18-year break from the business to be home with her daughter.

“I took off 18 years. I didn’t work,” she says. “Well, the first couple of years, I did work. I did some movies for television and stuff like that, because I could take her wherever I went. But then when she started school, I wasn’t going to go out of town for two months at a time. And I didn’t become a mother to give her to a nanny.”

Austin Hargrave on 3/23/22; Hair: Serena Radaelli/Cloutier ; Make Up:James McMahon Cloutier; Set Design: Dane Johnson/Atellier; Styling Heidi Meeks/The Wall Group

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In addition to her words of wisdom for anyone considering becoming a parent later in life, Mills, a proud octogenarian, also shared her secrets to aging gracefully: no to cosmetic procedures, yes to natural lines and mindful eating.

“I usually work out every day. Having been a dancer, I have my ballet bar in a little gym upstairs, and I just got a Peloton for my birthday,” she explains. “I do weight training and a lot of stretching.”

“I’ve always been a healthy eater. I don’t eat sugar. I don’t eat pasta. I don’t do starches,” she continues. “I eat mostly proteins and vegetables. I love vegetables, which I grow — kale and arugula, tomatoes. My greatest pleasure in life is eating it right off the vine. I’m not a good cook. The only thing that I make that’s good is cheesecake.“She adds: “For skin care, the main thing is stay out of the frickin' sun! It makes such a difference. And somebody asked me, ‘Why don’t you get [cosmetic enhancements]?’ No, because I’m not going to look like a duck. I’d rather have lines than a duck bill.“NOPEhits theaters on July 22.

source: people.com